Positive Parenting
Positive parenting is a respect based modality with a focus on the parent and child. However, with “divergently wired” family members, you have your work cut out for you. Situations may seem disrespectful, but maybe they are, maybe they are not. In any case how you react to them sets up the next hour. The next hour sets up the next day. You have more control that you realize. Seize it and use it well. Positively.
Let’s build more and more “wins’ into your day. The positive momentum will build and keep building.
Otherwise you will fall out of bed in the morning, and keep falling all day long. Not good for anyone.
There is a way for you to build your energy during the day instead of operating in a depleted state.
I’ve cracked the code.
For better or for worse. You may have made that vow, and never anticipated THIS. I know what THIS is. I live it every day. THIS is not fair. But you need to deal with THIS. Let’s get some new tools in your tool belt. They are simple to use, easier when stating postivive. It will get better, the storm will pass. But honestly only when you step up, reframe, re-establish your life. The best time was a few years ago. The next best time is now.
Focus on Parents of Differently Wired Children
Your family is a mess. Not your fault, but let’s fix the foundation. So you, your partner and your kids can thrive. Be normal whatever that is. I can work with one of your or both concurrently.
I will show you how to avoid getting into it with your partner, something which never helps your child. Arguing will only serve to build resentment between all of you, especially when you both need self care. You need a break! When you take care of yourself, you are in the best chance for taking care of others.
When you have a challenging child or maybe more than one, some of the tools are counter intuitive, but they work. I am happy to share them with you and yours, and get you some well deserved relief.
Why same page parenting is important
Your family is a mess. Not your fault, but let’s fix the foundation. So you, your partner and your kids can thrive. Be normal whatever that is. I can work with one of your or both concurrently.
I will show you how to avoid getting into it with your partner, which never helps your child, and only builds resentment between all of you. Especially when someone needs some self care. When you take care of yourself, you are in the best chance for taking care of others. The airlines show you each time. Still true.
When you have a challenging child or maybe more than one, some of the tools are counter intuitive, but they work. I am happy to share them with you and yours, and get you some well deserved relief.
ISSUES THAT MAYBE AVOIDED WITH SAME PAGE PARENTING
- Estrangement
- Divorce
- Judgement
- Guilt
- Fighting
- Power Struggles
- Financial Issues
- Detachment
- Decreased Sex Drive
Let’s not let the above list become your reality. It doesn’t have to. Let’s get closer to a smooth household that you are proud of. Enthusaistically spend more time with your family, that was the initial plan. Remember?
overcoming fear and anxiety
False Evidence Appearing Real. F.E.A.R. In most cases when we respond to fear, there is a specific thing we are afraid of. When anxiety hits, and it can hit hard, it is usually a response to the unknown or something less defined than fear. Both can be incapacitating, and lead to depression. A dangerous and vicious circle can follow where you can become depressed about being anxious and/or fearful. When you feel under attack constantly, and your nervous system is on fire, your body limits you cognitive abilities and you are not in the best place to make decisions, or anything really. We can change how you react to your circumstances, and your situation will change for the better. How you are living now is not a way to live. You deserve better than this.
“Ross is visionary in his thinking and execution, a true leader and professional.”
-ALLEN S